Two Feelers
Two people who feel everything, at the same time, in the same room.
How two Feelers carry hard things together: where you’re good, where it rubs, and what to say.
Find out which you areAbout a minute of quick taps. Then send it to them.
Where you’re good together
Nothing between you is ever cold. You understand each other’s big moments better than anyone.
Where it rubs
Two waves at once, and the shame afterward is shared and doubled.
What helps
Agree on a word that means ‘ninety seconds, no talking’. Either of you can say it.
Either of you might say
“Pause. Ninety seconds, no talking, then we try again.”
Or
“I know you didn’t mean it. Let’s both start over.”
Loving a Feeler
If you love a Feeler
- Don’t tell them to calm down. Give them a minute, stay close, and talk once it has passed.
- If they cry or snap, it isn’t a verdict on you, and it won’t last. They’ll want to make it right.
About Feelers
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For the other Feeler in your life.
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